Glimpse of Yesterday

Glimpse of Yesterday
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Monday, October 10, 2016

Slowness of a Sunday

I was talking with someone the other day about how Sundays used to be.  There was a time, really not very long ago, where it was unusual for retail stores, liquor stores, or sporting activities were in operation on Sundays.  Time on Sundays was reserved for church and/or family.  It was a day to chill.  Relax. Catch up.  Visit.  Reflect.  Plan.  Rest.  Read.  Commune with others.

We live in an age now where everyone needs a leg up over someone else.  Whether it be in making money, over-scheduling our children's activities, or running around gathering items to make ourselves feel better and keep up with our neighbors and colleagues.  Even in how we spend our time - "What are you doing this weekend?"  Uh, oh - it's going to sound lame when I say, "Nothing"!  We have social media that makes our lives look more exciting and interesting than they really are (except my social media - check it out).  We complain that we need one more day in our week.  No we don't.  We need to take our Sundays back.

Yesterday was a gloomy, rainy Sunday.  I had plenty of chores that needed to be accomplished.  There was housework to do, photographs of stock for the store needed to be taken, end of summer yard work still needs to be done......yet, I chose to do nothing.  Absolutely nothing.  And I loved it.  My husband, who is constantly busy working on something, whether it's actually work or household related, took part of the day to join me in doing nothing.  We just watched TV and talked.  We enjoyed each others company.  It was wonderful.

We need Sundays to stay connected with our families.  We need Sundays to rest from all of the hard work we put into the other six days.  We need Sundays to feed our spirits with prayer, meditation, and activities that bring us joy.  We need Sundays to do what we want, instead of what other people think we should be doing.  We are not in a race.  We don't have competitors.  But, if we don't return to enjoying the slowness of Sundays, we may all end up to be losers.



Saturday, February 14, 2009

The Blessings of a Sweet Valentine

Happy Valentine's Day to you all. I hope that this is a day of cozy conversations, sweet remembrances, beginnings of traditions, and celebrations of strong, loving relationships. This pertains not only to marrieds and dating, but to our relationships with our children, too.

My husband and I have agreed not to present gifts to one another in the name of this 'holiday' or to attempt to go out for a meal together. We enjoy each other every single day of the year. He does wonderful acts of thoughtfulness and kindness for me each day. Every morning he fetches my car from the garage and warms it up for me while I'm getting ready for work. Sometimes he makes a little snack, like a peeled orange, to bring to work. He prepares the coffee every night for the next morning because he knows I loves my coffee and I'm terrible at making it. He leaves a message on my cell phone every day encouraging me to have a wonderful day and reminding me that he loves me. These are the valentines he gives me every day of the year. And God know I don't need another box of chocolate. well maybe if it's organic dark chocolate. i'm going out later i might have to look into that.

I do try my best to be thoughtful for his sake as well. We often check in with each other with an 'Are we okay?' every couple of weeks. We're not perfect by any means. I don't believe that anyone is. But we try hard to think of each other's feelings every day and we both try to give 100% to our relationship. And hopefully, our children are seeing a happy, strong, loving marriage from their perspective.

Lord, thank you for bringing this wonderful man into my life. We've weathered many storms together and I know that you have strengthened us and bound us together with your love. May you bless Peter abundantly as he provides for his family and parents his children. Keep him safe, Lord, and may he continue to walk in your light, upon the path you have set before him.

May you all have a wonderful weekend! (it's a 3-day one for me! Wahoooo!)

--Liane